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HOMOPHOBIA

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I am the boy who never finished high school, because I
got called a fag everydayI am the girl kicked out of her home because I
confided in my mother that I am a lesbian.

I am the prostitute working the streets because nobody
will hire a transsexual woman.

I am the sister who holds her gay brother tight
through the painful, tear-filled nights.

We are the parents who buried our daughter long before
her time.

I am the man who died alone in the hospital because
they would not let my partner of twenty-seven years
into the room.

I am the foster child who wakes up with nightmares of
being taken away from the two fathers who are the only
loving family I have ever had. I wish they could adopt
me.

I am not one of the lucky ones. I killed myself just
weeks before graduating high school. It was simply too
much to bear.

We are the couple who had the realtor hang up on us
when she found out we wanted to rent a one-bedroom for
two men.

I am the person who never knows which bathroom I
should use if I want to avoid getting the management
called on me.

I am the mother who is not allowed to even visit the
children I bore, nursed, and raised. The court says I
am an unfit mother because I now live with another
woman.

I am the domestic-violence survivor who found the
support system grow suddenly cold and distant when
they found out my abusive partner is also a woman.

I am the domestic-violence survivor who has no support
system to turn to because I am male.

I am the father who has never hugged his son because I
grew up afraid to show affection to other men.

I am the home-economics teacher who always wanted to
teach gym until someone told me that only lesbians do
that.

I am the woman who died when the EMTs stopped treating
me as soon as they realized I was transsexual.

I am the person who feels guilty because I think I
could be a much better person if I didnt have to
always deal with society hating me.

I am the man who stopped attending church, not because
I don’t believe, but because they closed their doors
to my kind.

I am the person who has to hide what this world needs
most, love.

I am the person ashamed to tell my own friends im a
lesbian, because they constantly make fun of them.

I am the boy tied to a fence, beaten to a bloody pulp
and left to die because two straight men wanted to
“teach me a lesson.”

I am the man who is not aloud into the United States
because I live in a country that is not their ally,
therefore I have to hind my sexuality from my friends
and family because being gay in my country easily
will lead to death.
(a young man from Yemen)
Then there are those of us who have been assisted
through organizations that give us the bravery to
stand up to the homophobes and tell them we are
people just like themselves.
“I am the boy, the man, the girl, the woman, the
transgendered person who is loved, honored and
accepted because PFLAG exists for me.”
(Stevenpflag)
I am the man who has found that I can be who 
I am by dressing up as a female impersonator
and helping my community through fundraising.
(Michael aka Laid Evil Bitch)
I am the man who sees the world differently,
not only because I am blind, but also because
I am gay.
(Ryan aka Justin D)

Written by Laid Evil Bitch-Mess Cartier St. Joan

June 19, 2008 at 2:52 pm

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  1. Musicboys - your writing really does break my heart. I would love for you to write the verse that says “I am the boy, the man, the girl, the woman, the transgendered person who is loved, honored and accepted because PFLAG exists for me.” Come to our meetings. Third Sunday of every month at 2 pm at COS, Admin building, Room 1. We will be there for you.

    Stevenpflag

    19 Jun 08 at 10:17 pm

  2. Who ever wrote this - everyone that faces, fears or really hears this……

    God bless you, hold you and love you ; may you know you are not alone.

    Hope

    20 Jun 08 at 9:32 am

  3. I am the straight atheist who supports gay rights because everyone deserves equal treatment.

    Starbix

    20 Jun 08 at 11:55 am

  4. Starbix, then I want YOU for PFLAG

    stevenpflag

    21 Jun 08 at 3:19 pm

  5. I would, but I just barely got the wife’s permission to start the Tulare County Atheists group. I doubt she’d ok me joining another group. Yep, that’s what you all have to look forward to now that you can marry! I will, however, do what I can to support you from my little corner of the interwebs. Thanks for the invite, though!

    Starbix

    21 Jun 08 at 9:31 pm

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